
How and Why the Watchtower
Uses Fear to Control Its Members
by Randall Watters
reprint of the Jul/Aug 1990 Bethel
Ministries Newsletter
Nothing is so much to be feared as fear.
Henry David Thoreau 1817-1862
phobia. [Gr. phobos, fear.] any
persistent, irrational, and excessive fear of some particular thing or situation. (Webster's
New Universal Unabridged Dictionary, 1983)
People who have struggled with phobias
understand how immune such phobias can be to logical analysis. Like the recurrent
nightmare of fleeing a hideous monster, it never seems to sink in that monsters don't
exist. The irrational fears continue to plague the victim.
While nightmares are transitory and often
forgotten in the morning, other fears, some just as potent, lie in the consciousness of
people even during their waking hours. Fear of heights, dogs, being closed in a room, etc.
regularly traumatize people, affecting their lifestyle.
Relatively little attention is given to
religious fears, however. It is apparent that manipulative minds can readily distort the
scriptures in order to produce feelings of fear, guilt, remorse and even hysteria. The
followers of Jim Jones and Ayatollah Khomeini can attest to that. What is surprising is
that often the victims are aware of their paranoia and know it to be destructive, but feel
powerless to overcome it.
This is especially true among Jehovah's
Witnesses. Not satisfied with scripture alone, the Watchtower has added much commentary to
the Bible, comprising a "Talmud" of rules and prohibitions involving smoking,
holidays, etc. which create unnecessary fear of disobedience and finally guilt.
Why does the Watchtower insist on carefully
interpreting almost all matters of conduct for their followers? Furthermore, why do
Witnesses comply with all the rules, even when they may entertain doubts that the
rules originate with God?
To answer the first question, the motives of
the Watchtower must be understood. They intend no malice to their followers, but believe
they are seeking their best interests. By ordering the lives of almost four million
Witnesses around clearly-defined standards of conduct, they believe this will thereby be
pleasing to God and He will grant them eternal life. What the Watchtower does not
comprehend is that they share the same feelings and convictions as did the Pharisees in
Jesus' day. By developing an extensive commentary on scripture, the Pharisees made rulings
in all matters of life. Jesus said of them, "They tie up heavy loads, and lay them on
men's shoulders; but they themselves are unwilling to move them with so much as a
finger." (Matt. 23:4) This doesn't mean they failed to keep their own laws, as much
as it means they enjoined a moral law on their followers while avoiding a change of heart
towards mercy and justice themselves. (Matt. 23:23) Jesus condemned them for their failure
to come to repentance, in spite of keeping their laws. (John 5:39, 40)
As with legalism, phobias are a form of
manipulation. Like the parent who scares the bedwetting child with horror stories of what
happens to children who wet their beds, so there are religious organizations who resort to
phobia indoctrination rather than appealing to their followers through love and mercy.
While the reasons phobia indoctrination is
used are largely explained by the effort to control others' actions and behavior,
understanding the victim's plight is more complex.
Often those who seek out legalistic religious
sects are victims of phobias implanted long ago in their minds. The child who is taught by
his parents to fear life, people, marriage, or success will find solace in a religion that
preaches doomsday and engenders a persecution complex in its members. Like the codependent
mate of the alcoholic, he seeks not what he needs in order to escape the abusive
pattern, but what is already comfortable to him. Though hard to believe, phobias
and mind control can feel "comfortable" to those addicted to them, due to
long-term familiarity.
Phobias can be treated with success, but they
must be recognized by the victim, and the victim needs counseling in most cases.
Typical Watchtower Guilt Trip
"Some who were at one time progressing
toward dedication later may seem to be holding back. If they do not have enough love for
God in their heart to make an unreserved dedication to him, they ought to ask themselves
whether they still have the wonderful privilege of prayer. Apparently not, because those
approaching God must be earnestly seeking him and also righteousness and meekness.
(Zephaniah 2:3) Everyone who really fears Jehovah is a believer who makes a dedication to
God and symbolizes it by getting baptized. (Acts 8:13; 18:8) And only baptized believers
have an unrestricted privilege of approaching the King Eternal in prayer." (The Watchtower,
May 15, 1990, p. 12)
Should Christians Counsel Those In Cults?
Answering Non-Christians and Mental Health
Professionals
Those who study religious cults from a
psychological or behavioral perspective (especially non-Christians) will sooner or later
be confronted with the question, "Should Christians counsel those in cults? Don't
Christians themselves use mind control on people?" Critics of fundamentalist and
evangelical Christianity charge that the Bible fosters a persecution complex, unnaturally
focuses on sin and guilt, and demands strict rules of conduct, producing low self-esteem
and personal failure.
While most Christians would deny using mind
control techniques to gain converts or counsel others, some respond by saying, "We
are using a form of positive mind control, from God!" This answer may satisfy a few
Christians, but will probably not convince too many people outside the churches. Groups
such as Fundamentalists Anonymous often accuse the more zealous churches of being powerful
sources of guilt and fear, and reply that one cannot just "walk away" from their
belief structure without lasting psychological harm.
Shifting Viewpoints
I will first consider the typical viewpoint
among mental health professionals towards Christianity. Then, I will focus on the renewed
interest in traditional moral values among non-Christians as well as Christians.
Most sociologist/psychologists tend to
evaluate religions based on how far they deviate from the "norm" in terms of
socially acceptable behavior and beliefs. Churches or organizations that question or
oppose current moral trends in society are automatically viewed as aberrational or even
destructive. Picketing abortion clinics, boycotting movies, evangelization campaigns and
campaigning for the allowance of prayer in school or the teaching of creation as an
optional curriculum are seen as extremist activities by many professionals.
This kind of prejudice is open motivated by
the failure to discern between cultic mind control and social activism. It may be based on
negative personal experiences with religious people. Additionally, there are those who are
strongly opposed to traditional moral restraints, and religion becomes a key target.
There are valid reasons for skepticism among
psychologists. Phony faith healers, wild-eyed visionaries, charismatic leaders and
hucksters can be found in Christian churches, as in all religions. Some Christian churches
are borderline cults themselves, with leaders exerting more than necessary influence (as
well as guilt and condemnation) on their flocks. The shepherding/discipling movement has
been operative for years in many churches and organizations, promoting obedience to an
assigned "shepherd" who may enforce all manner of rules on the victim, such as
who to talk to or date or marry, etc.
However, while Christians may feel that the
professional world is against their values, many are not aware of the shift in attitudes
among many psychologists. In recent years certain experts, including the
non-religious and atheistic, have challenged many of the traditional Freudian attitudes in
psychotherapy. Researchers like William Glasser and Garth Wood have found greater success
with behavior therapy and honoring more traditional values including sexual morality,
honesty and self-sacrifice than with older Freudian theories. Through research, they have
demonstrated positive results accompanied by greater self-respect when their patients
follow their own positive moral values.
An Open Agenda or a "Hidden"
Agenda?
The Bible openly encourages evangelism, being
separate from the world in attitude and action, and standing up for what is morally right
in a society that has an ever-changing moral foundation. Christians are sometimes
persecuted for not "changing with the times." It is part of their inherent value
system. Non-Christians sometimes criticize Christians for pushing their values on others.
The truth is that most of us are salesmen in
one way or another. We try to sell others on our lifestyle, products, attitudes and/or
beliefs. We expect salesmanship in all areas of life, whether it be advertising,
marketing, political campaigns and even religious persuasion. Most of us believe that what
we have is the best thing going, and it is not wrong to attempt to convince others. We
have an "agenda," or cause, with which to influence others for good, and whether
we be Christians or non-Christians our value systems will naturally influence our
counseling of others.
The question arises, "When might the
counselor's agenda (including their religious persuasion) become an undesirable form of
mind control?"
While all may agree that truthfulness is
important, opinions would vary widely as to how much we need to disclose about ourselves
and our values to others. If someone comes to our door asking how much money we make,
where our spouse works and their hours, and what are our children's names, we may deny
them the information without being dishonest. But other situations are not so clear,
especially when we seek to convert someone over to our view without telling them that view
in advance. Then we are using a "hidden agenda."
Cults are very good at using the hidden
agenda. They will lie about the history of their organization, the failure of their
prophecies, the moral lives of their leaders, and much of their doctrine that they may
feel is too "strong" for you to hear all at once. By lying or failing to
disclose vital information, they are controlling information. Cults will also use
fear and guilt to manipulate others into a desired course of action and they will attempt
to control the emotions of their members.
Allen E. Bergin discussed the obligation upon
mental health professionals to disclose their values to their patients (see
"Psychotherapy and Religious Values"). But what about Christians? Should
Christians inform those they counsel of their value system? What if it may differ slightly
from that of other Christians? Shouldn't the results of the Christian lifestyle be open to
criticism and verification? How might Christians use mind control in counseling others?
There are two areas in which a Christian may
be unethical in counseling others. One is the presenting of Christianity as "the
truth," to be accepted without question and reinforcing it by fear and
guilt. The second is where the Christian presents their own personal opinion as
absolute truth on an issue that is vague in the Bible.
How Christianity Should Appear
Christians believe that Jesus is the Way, the
Truth and the Life (John 14:6). Christians should not be ashamed of this, if they truly
believe it. Embarrassment is usually a sign of insincerity or yielding under social
pressure. Yet neither is it a good sign when a Christian resorts to bluster and
intimidation to prove their point. This is an attempt to pressure people into submission,
rather than to win their hearts and minds with sound reasoning.
There are several good reasons why not to use
manipulative techniques to gain converts to the faith. Note the following points:
God desires us to make decisions of our own
free will. Ours should be an educated choice, so that we can explain the reason for their
faith to others.
When people later discover we have not told
the whole truth or purposely hid something from them due to a hidden agenda, they will not
trust us and may reject Christianity altogether. (1 Peter 3:16,17)
Christians who resort to bluster and
deception make the Church as a whole look bad, as outsiders cannot easily make
distinctions between the honest and the dishonest. (Rom. 2:23,24)
Using deception and manipulation indicates a
lack of faith in the power and efficacy of the truth in the lives of believers. and makes
God appear deceptive.
Leading on to Maturity
Being honest about one's motives is the mark
of a mature Christian. In turn, there will be a sincere desire to pass on such maturity to
others. Mind control tactics will be abhorred, knowing that God desires those who follow
him to have a free will and to make an educated decision. Yet the Christian need not
shrink from influencing others by his values, as long as such values are made known. In
situations such as exit-counseling, a Christian needs to be particularly careful not to
take advantage of the patient's confusion and vulnerability to influence them towards a
decision that they would not normally make if possessing a sound frame of mind. The use of
such techniques almost always backfires, with the result that the patient may later see
Christians as clever opportunists, and their methods as a form of mind control.
In summary, Christians can be good
counselors. They need to be honest in their presentation of what the Bible says, not
reading into it their own personal opinions. Nor should they use blustering in their
argumentation. Their lifestyle should demonstrate their faith as well.
In my personal experience, the Holy Spirit
prepares the hearts of people to receive the Word of Christ. God has chosen those who are
His before the foundation of the world (Eph. 1:4,5). When I begin to counsel people, I can
soon tell if they are really interested in knowing God or not. ##
Psychotherapy and Religious Values
In 1980 the Journal of Consulting and
Clinical Psychology printed a paper by Allen E. Bergin on the subject,
"Psychotherapy and Religious Values." Bergin demonstrates certain values
inherent in modern psychotherapy that often go unrecognized, but are nevertheless part of
the "agenda" of the therapist. He presents them in six thesis, which include the
following points
The psychotherapist's own values (i.e., humanistic
philosophy) are a pervasive part of psychotherapy. They must start with a philosophy of
human nature as a basis for measuring which changes are desirable or undesirable in a
person. For instance, if a patient obtains a divorce, is this to be regarded as a
desirable or undesirable change? If the patient turns from homosexuality to pursue
heterosexuality, how are such changes to be evaluated? Every aspect of psychotherapy
presupposes some implicit moral doctrine.
Two approaches to therapy are dominant in the
professional world, neither of which includes religious values. One seeks to conform the
person to the dominant society surrounding them, the other to humanistic ideals and
philosophy. Bergin comments: "An examination of 30 introductory psychology texts
turned up no references to the possible reality of spiritual factors (in influencing
behavior). Most did not have the words God or religion in their indexes."
("Psychotherapy and Religious Values", Journal of Consulting and Clinical
Psychology, 1980, Vol. 48, No. 1, p. 98) Since surveys indicate that about 90% of the
U.S. population express belief in God and 30% express strong belief, one must ask
why such a pervasive need for spiritual values is ignored in psychotherapy.
There is a significant contrast between the
values of mental health professionals and most of their clients. For example, in reply to
the statement, "Some sex before marriage is good," all 19 mental health
professionals at the New York Metropolitan Hospital agreed, but only half the patients
agreed. Obviously, professionals do advocate their own value systems, i.e. they have an
agenda whether they admit it or not.
It would be honest and ethical for
psychologists to acknowledge their own value systems to their clients and to be more
explicit about their beliefs, while respecting the value systems of their clients. As
Bergin admits, "Sometimes, as professionals, we follow the leaders of our profession
or our graduate professors in assuming that what we are doing is professional without
recognizing that we are purveying under the guise of professionalism and science our own
personal value systems." (ibid., p. 102, italics ours)
It is the obligation of professionals to
attempt to test the effectiveness of following their value systems. These values should be
subject to criticism and verification within their own culture.
Bergin received an overwhelming response, and
two replies by mental health professionals (Albert Ellis, Inst. for Rational-Emotive
Therapy: New York and Gary B. Walls, Miami Univ.) were subsequently printed. Though Ellis
and Walls disagreed with some of Bergin's categories and his theism, they did not attempt
to deny the major points just outlined, and agreed there is a need to be more honest and
objective in psychotherapy as to one's value system.
Is Christianity a Destructive Cult?
Non-Christians as well as the cults may
reject any effort by the Christian to use Bible doctrine as a criteria for determining
what is a cult. Furthermore, some cults have sound orthodox doctrine but abuse their
members emotionally and spiritually. It is therefore important to make a distinction
between doctrine and technique. As far as doctrine goes, a church or organization can be
judged as either Christian or non-Christian, orthodox or heretical by doctrinal
statements, but their proselytizing and training methods should determine whether they are
a cult.
Steven Hassan, author of Combatting Cult
Mind Control, lists four basic marks of mind control cults. They are listed below,
along with my own clarifying comments. The advantage of using these as a criteria for what
is/is not a cult is that they will likely be acceptable to both Christian and
non-Christian. Using this as a foundation, the practices of a church or organization can
be examined according to these four criteria. Other similar criteria can be used as well,
such as Robert J. Lifton's eight points of mind control, as outlined in his Thought
Reform and the Psychology of Totalism.
Emotional Control
FEAR and GUILT is the key in emotional
control, often called phobia indoctrination. The cult member develops the paranoia
that Satan is out to get him if he questions the organization or leaves for any reason,
and that he will die at Armageddon, etc. He or his family may also die a horrible death if
he leaves.
Behavior Control
All kinds of peculiar rules, dress codes and
standards of conduct (not specified in the Bible) are impressed upon the member. Certain
movies, music, dancing, etc. are usually prohibited. New behavior models are enforced,
such as going door-to-door, attending several meetings a week, new attitudes towards
dissidents, etc. The cultist is made to feel both special yet persecuted for his beliefs.
Thought Control
Loaded language is used (terms peculiar to
the group), such as (in Jehovah's Witnesses) new system, theocratic, God's
organization, anointed, the truth, apostates, etc. Thought-stopping techniques
prevent entertaining wrong thoughts about the organization that might lead to healthy
doubts. Everything becomes black and white; the organization is good and all else is bad.
There are answers to all your questions-no need to think for yourself.
Control of Information
Members are denied access to information
critical of the organization. The member is kept busy reading their own literature and
attending instructional meetings. Secrecy is maintained in formulating policies and in
disclosing finances. Several levels of knowledge may exist within the pyramid structure of
the cult. Information is kept from outsiders as well, giving a more benign appearance to
the public. The victim of a cult develops a paranoia that the devil is out to get him/her
if they do not continue in the group and follow its dictates. The members are led to
believe they are not capable of using their own mind to discover what is right and wrong,
but must instead follow the organization.
Fear of doubt
Witnesses often go through a real struggle
with doubt in the beginning, and must suppress information contrary to the Watchtower.
They soon learn to dismiss the doubts, but rarely resolve the discrepancies in their
minds. Therefore, whenever something triggers doubt once more, or whenever their belief
system is threatened, they get scared. It is based on doctrine rather than relationship
with God. Doubt causes extreme anxiety and all effort will be made to avoid putting the
self into situations where doubt may arise.
Fear of leaving the organization
Perhaps the greatest fear of all among
Witnesses, due to the radical change it will make in their mental and social well-being.
Not only does the Witness suppose he will suffer extreme guilt, shame and suicidal
feelings, but he knows he will lose all of his JW friends, and any family members in the
organization will refuse to speak to him. The JW's worst suspicions about himself and his
inherent depravity will be confirmed. The likelihood is that Armageddon will come while he
is disfellowshiped. The Witness believes he will have nowhere to go, and will live the
rest of his life miserable and lonely.
Fear of success
Witnesses are told that to pursue a career in
this system of things is dangerous, as IT will subject them to all sorts of distractions,
mainly the love of money. The Witness is often made to feel guilty for pursuing a higher
education, since their time is better spent going door-to-door in the "short time
remaining" before the end of this wicked old system. If you already have money or a
good education, one of two behaviors will be manifested towards you, depending on the
spirit of your congregation. Either they will treat you with disdain for being so
"materialistic," or they will look up to you as a fine example of someone who
has power in the world and yet is successful in "the truth," which is supposedly
also a good witness to others outside the organization. Many double standards!
Fear of "worldly" people
Since only "Jehovah's people" will
be saved, all others will be destroyed at Armageddon. Regardless of how religious or God
fearing outsiders may appear, they are "worldly" towards you, and are "bad
associations." They will corrupt the good morals of the JW, and will be used by the
devil to make inroads into the JW mind with doubts about the organization and will cause
them to slack off in the witnessing work.
Fear of learning
Witnesses are cautioned not to "go
beyond the things that are written," which is interpreted as meaning that they are
not to think thoughts that the Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses has not thought yet,
or thoughts that may be contrary to Watchtower doctrine or policy. Thought-stopping
techniques are used to avoid thinking thoughts that would bring on more doubt or increase
the JW's internal dissonance (see the Jul/Aug 1987 issue of the Bethel Ministries
Newsletter on "How and Why Someone Becomes a JW").
The Witness is taught that higher education
will result in "higher criticism of the Watchtower truths and a rejection of the
authority of the Organization. Reading books not published by the Watchtower will put a
person in danger of being influenced by other's wrong beliefs, and will lead to the
pollution of the "pure language" spoken by Jehovah's people.
Fear of the devil
The devil is the one who unexpectedly tried
to thwart God's purposes in the Garden of Eden, and has succeeded in giving God a complex.
God cannot destroy the devil, for the angels would be concerned of his motives. He is in a
bind, and must allow the devil to work out his plan. Since God is limited by the devil,
the devil is seen as having a degree of power over the JW and is often feared.
Fear of close friendships
A sad feature of JW relationships is the
encouragement by the leadership to spy on one's brothers, and if anything is unbecoming in
their lives, they are to be confronted or turned in to the elders, or both (usually it is
simultaneous). There is a "pecking order" in the organization, with the
Governing Body on top, followed by Bethel workers and Circuit and District overseers, then
the local elders, then the pioneers and ministerial servants, and the
"publishers" on the bottom (women being least favored). Since confidences cannot
officially be kept, and personal struggles admitted only at great risk of being chastised
or "counseled," Witnesses cannot confide in their own, but ironically turn to
non-Witnesses for confidences.
Fear of "apostates"
Those that leave the organization (for any
reason) are described in the vilest of terms. They are "proud and egotistical, hating
authority, liars, deceivers and fornicators" and generally feared by the JWs. They
will take extreme measures to avoid even making eye contact with ex-JWs, and may move
their residence.
Fear of God
The Watchtower may paint a kindly picture of
God in their publications, but in practice God is austere and exacting once you are
baptized. Salvation is never secure, and JWs can only believe they are saved on a
momentary basis. Since a relationship with Christ is not promoted and the indwelling of
the Holy Spirit is not taught, the believer receives no true joy of fellowship with God.
Pride of personal and organizational accomplishments and the spirit of elitism fills
the void.
Fear of Armageddon
Though death is seen as annihilation by the
WT, there are special indignities visited upon those not fully immersed in organizational
activities when the end comes. Their eyes will rot out of their sockets and they will
suffer immolation at the hands of God. Armageddon is kept vivid in their minds, through
pictures such as the one designed to scare small Witness children found in From
Paradise Lost to Paradise Regained, 1958, p. 208209). Much fear is centered around the
intense shame and despair that will surely be experienced as the JW sees their friends
survive while they die.
Fear of other religions
All other religions are part of Babylon the
Great, the World Empire of False Religion. God will shortly destroy all of Babylon with
her "lovers," meaning all churchgoers and sympathizers. All religious objects or
ceremonies are seen as demonic and dangerous, so all physical contact is avoided with
anything religious. JWs are not allowed to attend weddings or funerals in churches,
partake in traditional holidays or even give gifts at Christmas. Bibles other than the New
World Translation are seen as tainted by Christendom's scholars. The fear of
demonic attack is ever-present when a JW encounters other religions and/or fellowships
with other religious persons.